Deflecting Appreciation

I told her she’s amazing,
She told me she’s not,
I told it to her again,
“Not as amazing as you,” she replied.

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And I wondered,
Why does she not
Accept she truly really is
Such an amazing person?

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“When it comes to writing about love,
You’re the king,”
That’s what I told him.
“You’re way better,” he replied.

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And I wondered,
Why does he not
Accept the title
He truly deserves?

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But then I realized,
Many a times, I do the same.
Deflecting appreciation,
Shying away from praise.

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You see, we grew up that way.
Where calling ourselves amazing,
Is seen as being too proud,
And deflecting it, is the norm.

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And many of us, along the way,
Deflecting all the appreciation,
We’ve truly forgotten,
How amazing we really are.
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So, please, do yourself a favor,
Embrace all the appreciations,
With head held high and bright smile.
Cause dear, you truly deserve them.

Inspired by: Anushka, Srijan and Bharath

Featured image by:Β Pragyan BezbaruahΒ fromΒ Pexels

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much Haroon! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ’•πŸ’–

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      1. Haroon Mirza Avatar

        You’re welcome

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      2. WildHeart Avatar

        πŸ€—πŸ’•

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  1. Tushara Olivia Avatar

    This always happens in everybodies life. They never ever accept their own talents. The way you said it is beautiful.πŸ˜πŸ’žπŸ‘

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much Tushara! πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ’•πŸ’–πŸ’– Sending you loads and loads of love! ❀️❀️❀️

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      1. Tushara Olivia Avatar

        My pleasure dear 😊❀️

        Liked by 2 people

      2. WildHeart Avatar

        πŸ€—πŸ’•πŸ’–

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  2. Bharath Upendra Avatar

    Oye! Why am I even on this list?? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      I’ll screenshot our conversation which made me want to write this and send it. Wait. 😬

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      1. Bharath Upendra Avatar

        Oh please!!🀣🀣

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      2. WildHeart Avatar

        πŸ€ͺπŸ€ͺπŸ€ͺ

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  3. KK Avatar

    Beautiful linesπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much Kaushal! πŸ€—πŸ’•

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  4. Anushk@ Avatar

    Oh my God.. Shreya πŸ™ˆπŸ€©
    So this was a your surprise…
    I am flattered 😁🀞
    And that amazing thing…girl..u are amazing..trust me on that.. please πŸ€—
    You are love❀️
    Thank you so much ❀️

    Well…I have nominated u for an award..do check it out ❀️

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much Anushka. I hope you always remember how amazing you are. I’ll definitely do the award. However, I may take some time. I still have a few pending awards. πŸ€ͺπŸ˜¬πŸ™ˆπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜

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      1. Anushk@ Avatar

        I will…and I am gonna save this post of yours…so that I can cherish this forever…πŸ’™
        And do take your time…
        Much love to youπŸ’•

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      2. WildHeart Avatar

        πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆYour comment makes me jump with joy! πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ€ͺπŸ€ͺπŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’•β€οΈβ£οΈ

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      3. Anushk@ Avatar

        Then jump😜
        I’ll love to see u smiling πŸ’•πŸ€—

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      4. WildHeart Avatar

        Technically you can’t see me smile! πŸ€ͺπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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      5. Anushk@ Avatar

        But, I can feel thoughπŸ˜‰
        By your emojisπŸ€—

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      6. WildHeart Avatar

        Haha… πŸ€ͺπŸ€ͺπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜¬πŸ˜¬πŸ€­

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  5. shadawss shadawss Avatar

    You are proving your talents

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much dear πŸ’—

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      1. shadawss shadawss Avatar

        God bless

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  6. Kamya Seervi Avatar

    Well, you deserve some appreciation for your work. This poem was thought provoking and it made me realise that sometimes I can leave my modesty aside and accept the fact that I’m good at something. Keep writing and inspiring! πŸ™‚

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much Kamya! Cheers to being our own unapologetically awesome selves. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜β£οΈβ£οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜

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  7. Harsh Avatar

    That’s very true!

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Indeed! So let’s be our unapologetically awesome selves and accept all the appreciation! πŸ˜¬πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ’•β€οΈβ£οΈπŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜

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      1. Harsh Avatar

        Yes!!πŸ˜ƒ

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      2. WildHeart Avatar

        πŸ€—πŸ’•πŸ’–

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  8. Era Singh Avatar

    Totally loved this poem 😊😊

    Liked by 1 person

    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thanks a lot Era. So glad you loved it. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’•πŸ’–β€οΈβ£οΈ

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  9. Nima Mohan Avatar

    I loved this one Shreya !! And you have got an amazing talent !!

    Liked by 2 people

    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much Nima. Your sweet comment means a lot to me. Have a beautiful day and keep reading! β£οΈπŸ’•πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜

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      1. Nima Mohan Avatar

        πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

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      2. WildHeart Avatar

        πŸ€—πŸ’•

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  10. Christina Avatar

    Thank you so much for this. It is something I struggle with for sure. I re-posted to my page. I hope you don’t mind. I really think a lot of people will benefit from your observation. Have a beautiful day. πŸ’šπŸ˜

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much Christina. It means a lot to me that you thought this poem worthy of being reblogged. Sending you lots of love. Have a beautiful day and stay safe! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’•β£οΈπŸ’–β€οΈ

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  11. Mohamad Toutounji Avatar

    Your poems are just what I need to start off my day happily
    Because they are so beautiful and passionate and inspiring
    ❀️🌹🌹

    Liked by 1 person

    1. WildHeart Avatar

      πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯° Thank you so much dear. Your sweet comments never fail to light up my day. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’•πŸ’–β£οΈβ€οΈ

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      1. Mohamad Toutounji Avatar

        Thank you very much dear
        I’m just saying what is in my heart
        πŸ₯°

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      2. WildHeart Avatar

        I know dear. The fact you say it from your heart makes my day even more beautiful! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’•πŸ’–

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      3. Mohamad Toutounji Avatar

        Always a pleasure dear
        Hope you have a great and blessed day my friend

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      4. WildHeart Avatar

        You too! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ’•πŸ’–πŸ˜˜

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  12. Untold Stories Avatar

    This is true indeed. We do feel keeping away from praise shows us to be grounded so we do not accept it in first place. But it’s true Shreya, you know it you deserve all love and appreciation and you are doing great. This poem is a live example of same. I love and adore your work as well like many other do.

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Your comment is making my heart flutter, as if they have grown a pair of wings. I just feel so adored, so special… Thank you so much. You’re such an important person to me in my blogging journey. Love you so so much! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’–β€οΈβ£οΈβ£οΈ

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      1. Untold Stories Avatar

        Love to too Shreya β™₯️β™₯️

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      2. WildHeart Avatar

        πŸ€—πŸ˜˜β€οΈ

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  13. Tanya Sheik Avatar

    You are truly amazing!!

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      So are you Tanya! Thank you so much! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’–

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  14. srijan Avatar

    i’m personally not really good w compliments. that’s just how i’ve always been πŸ™‚
    a rather cute poem. and you’re the sweetest, really.

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much Srijan! I truly appreciate all your works. You bring emotions to like and make eternal love seem real. πŸ™ˆπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’–πŸ’–β£οΈβ€οΈ

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  15. Brad Osborne Avatar

    Shreya, I have read and commented on many of your poems. I am always amazed at the beautiful art you create with your words. And I have watched that grow and blossom along the way. But this…this is a masterful composition! I felt like it spoke directly to me, and it would appear, from the comments you have received already, that many of your readers feel that too. What more could a poet ever ask for? So proud of you! Much love! ❀πŸ₯°β£

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thanks a million Brad. It means so much to me that you could directly relate to this one. I’m so so so happy. πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ Sending much love back to you! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’•πŸ’–

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  16. tanaka_tkzy Avatar

    Ncaaawww! Dope stuff.

    Liked by 2 people

    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thanks man! This means a lot to me. πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’•πŸ’–

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  17. Asrar Qureshi Avatar

    Very true to life. It is our training to shun appreciation and it is a good thing also. However, we overdo it and actually underestimate ourselves. Problem is it may lead to loss of some valuable opportunities, professional, personal, and emotional. Nicely said.

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much Asar. Your kind words has made me so much very happy. Your appreciation means a lot to me. Have a beautiful day and stay safe! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’–πŸ’•

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  18. Kaylen Avatar

    This poem ‘s fireπŸ”₯… I loved it so so much ….do you mind if I share it in Google classroom with my creative writing club? All credit will be given of course.

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    1. The Bold Girl Avatar

      Wowwwww!!!!😍😍😍

      Liked by 2 people

      1. WildHeart Avatar

        Thank you so much! πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

        Liked by 1 person

      2. The Bold Girl Avatar

        Your emojis!πŸ˜ƒ

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      3. WildHeart Avatar

        I know they are awesome! πŸ€ͺπŸ€ͺπŸ€ͺ

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    2. WildHeart Avatar

      It would be an honor Kaylen. There’s no way I’d mind something like that. Thank you so much! πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’•πŸ’•β€οΈβ£οΈβ£οΈ I’m so so so happy you liked it. πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’–πŸ’•

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      1. Kaylen Avatar

        Thank you…they will love this poem so muchπŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—

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      2. WildHeart Avatar

        I hope they do. πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’•πŸ’•β€οΈ

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  19. The Bold Girl Avatar

    Wow! That’s such a lovely message that you conveyed!❀️

    I belong to the same set of people too.😞

    Liked by 1 person

    1. WildHeart Avatar

      I’m the same too Hollie! But we can put in a little effort towards accepting appreciation and loving ourselves a little more. Sending you loads of love! Stay safe and take care! β€οΈβ€οΈπŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’•πŸ’–β£οΈ

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      1. The Bold Girl Avatar

        The best people always have a tough time in accepting their capabilities. Morons are always confident and sometimes overconfident. I have observed this. You too take care!πŸ€—πŸ€—

        Hope you ain’t jumping anymore!🀣🀣

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      2. WildHeart Avatar

        I don’t think so… Just because someone is overconfident doesn’t classify them as morons… And this is me defending myself cause I’m overconfident about so many things. Like when I filled out a form for licence and failed the test and lot more… πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜¬πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ

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      3. The Bold Girl Avatar

        Hahahaha… That’s not called over-confidence. You’d definitely meet people or must have met probably if you’re a working individual where there would be someone who’s way to over-confident than someone who’s really wise and holds a lot of knowledge. The wise usually remains silent.

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  20. Aditi Lahane Avatar

    Wow! This is an amazing piece! As are all of your other poems…they have that poignant essence that never fail to touch our hearts.
    Big fan of yours!!!😊❀

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much Aditi!! This means of lot to me. Your words has got my flying on cloud nine. πŸ€ͺπŸ€ͺπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜β€οΈπŸ’–πŸ’• Sending you loads of love. ❀️

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  21. Anisha Avatar

    That’s a much needed message, Shreya.
    Beautiful work as usual!

    I asked my friend to accept any appreciation, just yesterday. Whenever I compliment someone, “Don’t joke” has become the most common response. I wish people change for the good, regarding this.

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much Anisha. I feel the same too. πŸ™ˆπŸ˜¬β€οΈπŸ’•β£οΈπŸ’–

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    2. Venkateshwari Avatar

      sure…………

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      1. WildHeart Avatar

        πŸ’•

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  23. short-prose-fiction Avatar

    Very beautiful and encouraging

    So, please, do yourself a favor,
    Embrace all the appreciations,
    With head held high and bright smile.
    Cause dear, you truly deserve them.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much dear. This means a lot to me. πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜β£οΈβ£οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

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      1. short-prose-fiction Avatar

        My pleasure sweetheart πŸ€—β€οΈπŸŒΊβ€οΈπŸŒΊβ€οΈ

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      2. WildHeart Avatar

        πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ₯°πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’•πŸ’•

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  24. Navin Avatar

    You are truly an amazing writer….being….you must know….this is a great reminder….a great way of telling….this forgetting tale….to feel appreciated….without deflecting ❀️πŸ”₯πŸ€—πŸ™

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much Navin! 😍πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°… Cheers to not deflecting appreciation. ❀️❀️❀️

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      1. Navin Avatar

        β€οΈπŸ€—

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  26. ruchiabhisikta Avatar

    These words are so soothing that I can’t leave this place with a warm heart❀

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much dear. Cheers to embracing appreciation!! Much love. ❀️❀️❀️

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  28. komal Ater Avatar

    Very true…. Appreciation is the thing that keeps us going ….. But if someone accepts appreciation he/she is taken as proudy… Which is not the case at all

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Yep! So I hope you accept the appreciation you deserve. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ£οΈβ£οΈπŸ’žβ£οΈπŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜

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      1. komal Ater Avatar

        Yes my dear πŸ’• freind

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      2. WildHeart Avatar

        πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ’žβ£οΈβ€οΈ

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  29. Shreya Avatar

    This is wonderfully penned ! ❀

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you, Shreya! 😬😬😬 I really feel nice writing your name cause it’s my name too… Idk why, but I really like the people I share my name with. πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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      1. Shreya Avatar

        Awww πŸ˜‚ It’s the same here. Quite a weird feeling to call someone else using my own name, as well.
        You’re welcome, Shreya! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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      2. WildHeart Avatar

        True! But two of my closest friends are Shreya. We call ourselves the Shreya Squad. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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      3. Shreya Avatar

        Whaaaaaaa that’s so cool !!πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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      4. WildHeart Avatar

        Yeahhh, I’m Shreya Joshi. They are Shreya Silwal and Shreya Shrestha… We are so lucky to have different surnames… πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Else it’d be a chaos! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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      5. Shreya Avatar

        Dayum. You guys must have been born to be friends. πŸ˜€

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      6. WildHeart Avatar

        Haha… All Shreyas are 😍😍😍

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      7. Shreya Avatar

        Cheers to our new friendship ! ❀

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      8. WildHeart Avatar

        Virtual hug! πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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      9. Shreya Avatar

        Virtual hug πŸ˜€ ❀

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      10. WildHeart Avatar

        πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  30. Alexithymia_Shubhi Avatar

    Nicely written. I do come across such friends who don’t seem to appreciate themselves.

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    1. WildHeart Avatar

      Thank you so much, Shubhi. So glad you liked it. β™₯️β™₯️β™₯οΈπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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